~ Plain.... ~

(shidare-zakura)

:)

Masa berlalu, aku belajar banyak benda..Ada yang terkena dengan kisah hidup, ada yang tak..Tapi boleh kata semuanya ada sangkut paut sikit2..Ingatkan aku sorang je yang alami semua ni tapi taklah, ramai je yang senasib..

Usrah, 7th January 2010, OR Censerve, 8.00 - 9.30pm

I'm belonged to group 3..My naqibah is sister Nisa'..Others are the two Ain(s), Lily, and Huz..Ta'aruf session began with what Hassan al-Banna had always emphasized in maintaining ukhuwah among members..From the story of our beloved Prophet Muhammad s.a.w..He was alone..Single..But then he had Bilal..Then he had these four famous sahabah; Abu Bakr, Umar, Ali, and Uthman..From here, he holds them, taking care of them, keeping them with him always..See..from a single and one person, our Prophet managed to make it became bigger and bigger from time to time..Just because of ukhuwah..

What should a person have to strengthen the ukhuwah?

The lowest standard = ikhlas (the lowest? Very hard to do, but just considered as the lowest?)

The highest standard = itsar (a kinda sacrifice when somebody ignore his/her feelings just for others' benefit)

There was a story..
Redha should be applied..
How firm are we when we say we're redha with what happened?

Redha..
Let him/her go..
At the same time..
Pray the best for him/her..
Never dislike him/her..
So that one day
When we meet him/her..
We will just smile..
And thought that "Oh, my old fren..."..

Redha..
When we've to accept that s/he is a friend given by Him..
Doesn't mean we love
then s/he turns to be our spouse..
Don't love somebody except s/he is our husband/wife..

"...Dlu ms kat sek0lah, ustzh kte penah ckp, prmpuan yg c0uple ni ibarat curang dgn future husband die..ye la..time c0uple, prmpuan biase bg everythng pd c0uple die..i mean ksih syg la..s0 klu sume bnd die da bg, ape je la yg tnggal tuk husband die nnt.." (29 Oct 2009/14:29)
- Thanks to dear friend, Nur Syatilla..-

Redha..
Think of ourselves
in the first place..
Don't hate..
Or else we might get hurt so bad..

"On no soul doth God place a burden greater than it can bear. It gets every good that it earns, it suffers every ill that it earns. (Pray:) "Our Lord! Condemn us not if we forget or fall into error; our Lord! Lay not on us a burden like that which Thou didst lay on those before us; Our Lord! Lay not on us a burden greater than we have strength to bear. Blot out our sins, and grant us forgiveness. Have mercy on us. Thou art our Protector; help us against those who stand against Faith."
(Surah Al-Baqarah: 286)

Allah tidak membebani seseorang melainkan sesuai dengan kesanggupannya. Ia mendapat pahala (dari kebajikan) yang diusahankannya dan ia mendapat seksa (dari kejahatan) yang dikerjakannya. (Mereka berdoa): "Ya Tuhan kami, janganlah Engkau hukum kami jika kami lupa atau kami tersalah. Ya Tuhan kami, janganlah Engkau bebankan kepada kami beban yang berat sebagaimana Engkau bebankan kepada orang-orang yang sebelum kami, yang apa yang tak sanggup kami memikulnya. Beri maaflah kami; ampunilah kami; rahmatilah kami. Engkau penolong kami, maka tolonglah kami terhadap kaum yang kafir.

Redha..
Be positive..
Maintain the relationship..
Don't take past
as an obstacle..
To taste the brotherhood we have..

Redha..
Open our heart
for someone out there
who is waiting..

The truth is that..
Whenever we experience love and failure,
That love and that failure brings us
to Him..

:)

Ta'aruf taught me a lot..
Want to know the Prophet Muhammad s.a.w better..
Meaningless if I say I love
but actually I don't know him..

- Tak kenal maka tak cinta -


~ walk away with smile, think how to be ikhlas ~